The phrase “shine your spine” is one of those sayings that stuck with me the first time I saw it. It’s more than just a catchy phrase—it’s a powerful metaphor for finding the courage to assert your needs, hold boundaries, and choose yourself, even when it feels scary or uncomfortable.
Transforming self-talk is a journey, but affirmations can act as stepping stones toward greater self-esteem and emotional well-being. By challenging negative patterns and fostering a kinder inner dialogue, clients often find themselves feeling more confident and resilient, both in their personal lives and in their relationships.
Over the years, “survivor” has become the preferred term in trauma work. It moves away from the idea of victimhood and emphasizes strength, resilience, and progress. But while “survivor” is often more empowering than “victim,” it still has its limitations. For some people, surviving isn’t enough.
The never enough mindset often shows up as a persistent inner voice insisting that nothing you do is sufficient. This feeling impacts nearly every area of life, from dating and relationships to careers and personal growth. Whether we’re striving to connect with others or reach personal goals, this never enough mindset can set up damaging cycles of self-doubt and comparison, especially for those building meaningful relationships while grappling with self-worth.
Living with a loved one who has a mental health disorder can turn family life upside down. Discover insights from a licensed psychotherapist on navigating these challenges, building stronger relationships, and caring for yourself along the way.
Heartbreak is an experience that cuts across all boundaries, but for gay men, the end of a relationship can carry its own unique set of challenges.
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